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Tuesday, June 22, 2010

YOUR WIFEY....I think not

Lately, sex has been a big deal. Ok...It was always a big deal but now its what every girl wants to convey in their dress, walk, hair, and make up. How can you blame them when the people we are obsessed with are people like Nicki Minaj and lil wayne and the movies we watch are movies like the hangover.

With all this people have forgotten the art of being a LADY!....so while your dancing in the club in a corset with leggings on and half your ass out..do you think a guy will rate you as wifey material?

Here is an article that caught my attention ...Credits to bossip.com


5 Things Men Look for in a Wifey
1. Assess her personality. This means her personal characteristics, emotions, style and expressions. Her perspective on the world around her, combined with her level of self-esteem, can speak volumes about the type of life partner and future parent she will be.
2. Know how attracted you are to her. Physical and sexual attraction can mean different things to different people. To some, romance and intimacy are key, while others prefer more active and kinky activities to really make them feel attracted to their partner. It’s important that your attraction and chemistry are mutual, and sustainable for years to come as a married couple.
3. Consider her level of intelligence. Finding a mate mutually matched near your level of intelligence is important to compatibility and having meaningful conversations as a couple. How she observes the world, either casually or aggressively, her level of education, sense of humor, skills, hobbies and conversation style are all important elements of this assessment.
4. Determine how she handles money. Money matters affect everyone, and finances are a key factor in the success of a marriage. Pay attention to spending style, lifestyle, professional ambitions and financial goals when determining your compatibility when it comes to spending and saving.
5. Know her values and compare them with yours. Spiritual values don’t necessarily mean affiliation with a religion but rather a general belief in a reason and purpose for being here. Other values to consider include those involved with family, stability, purpose, religion, optimism, honesty and integrity.
These 5 things are not much for any woman to do, but lets be honest, there are some women who are delusional enough to think they are assets, when they usually turn out to be major liabilities and the same thing goes for men. A woman shouldn’t look at a man’s wallet and say “He’s the one for me,” because money can’t hold you at night.
So… ARE YOU REALLY WIFEY MATERIAL or DO YOU HAVE SOME WORK TO DO???

3 comments:

  1. But how many guys around here think that far ahead or care about that??....I wish I could find a guy like that....even if u had all the assets men nuh know how fi keep dem ting in dem pants smh.

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